Do I Pull My Hair Because I Have OCD?

Meryl Da Costa
Apr 6th, 2026

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If you find yourself pulling your hair and also struggling with intrusive thoughts or anxiety, you may have wondered:

“Is this OCD?”

It’s a very common question. Hair pulling and OCD can look similar on the surface, and they are often confused with one another. Both involve repetitive behaviours, both can feel difficult to control, and both can bring a sense of relief followed by frustration or shame.

But while they are related, they are not the same condition.

Understanding the difference can help you make sense of your experience and, importantly, guide you toward the most effective treatment.

Are Hair Pulling and OCD the Same Thing?

No. Hair pulling, known clinically as trichotillomania, is not OCD.

Both conditions fall under a broader category called Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders (OCRDs) in diagnostic guidelines. This means they share some similarities, but they are distinct conditions with different underlying mechanisms.

OCD is defined by:

  • Obsessions: intrusive, unwanted thoughts, images, or urges
  • Compulsions: behaviours performed to reduce anxiety caused by those thoughts

Hair pulling, on the other hand, is classified as a body-focused repetitive behaviour (BFRB) and is primarily driven by urges rather than intrusive thoughts.

The Key Difference: Meaning vs Regulation

One of the most important distinctions is what the behaviour is trying to do.

In OCD:
The behaviour is usually driven by an intrusive thought, image, or urge that feels meaningful or threatening.
The goal is to reduce anxiety and resolve doubt, or to prevent something bad from happening.

For example:

“What if something is wrong with my hair?”
“I need to check or fix it to be sure.”

In Hair Pulling (Trichotillomania):
The behaviour is more often driven by a physical or emotional urge, such as tension or discomfort.
The goal is typically to relieve that internal state, rather than to prevent a specific feared outcome.

People often describe:

  • A build-up of tension or sensation
  • A strong urge to pull
  • A sense of relief, release, or satisfaction afterward

Importantly, anxiety or distress can be present in both conditions. However, in OCD the behaviour is usually linked to a feared consequence or a need for certainty, while in hair pulling it is more often linked to regulating an internal sensation or state.

Where They Can Overlap

Even though they are different conditions, hair pulling and OCD can overlap in meaningful ways.

Both can involve:

  • Repetitive, hard-to-control behaviours
  • A strong sense of feeling “compelled” to act
  • Intense internal urges or discomfort that build over time
  • A cycle of distress or an urge followed by temporary relief
  • Feelings of shame, frustration, or loss of control

Although both experiences can feel compelling, the underlying drivers are different. In OCD, the behaviour is typically performed to reduce anxiety linked to intrusive thoughts. In hair pulling, the behaviour is more often driven by sensory urges, tension, or habit.

Research also shows that individuals with one OCRD may experience another, meaning OCD and hair pulling can occur together.

This overlap in experience is one of the reasons it can be difficult to tell them apart.

Can OCD Influence Hair Pulling?

Yes, in some cases, OCD can influence or interact with pulling behaviours.

For example:

  • Someone with OCD may pull hair in response to intrusive thoughts (e.g., to “fix,” “correct,” or neutralise something)
  • Pulling may become part of a broader compulsive pattern
  • Intrusive thoughts may increase anxiety, which in turn increases urges to pull

In these cases, both OCD and hair pulling processes may be present at the same time.

This is why careful assessment is important.

Why People Often Confuse the Two

There are several reasons why OCD and hair pulling are often confused.

Both conditions are grouped under the same diagnostic category, known as Obsessive-Compulsive and Related Disorders (OCRDs), which can make them seem more similar than they are.

There is also limited awareness that hair pulling is its own condition. Many people assume that any repetitive or hard-to-control behaviour must be OCD.

In some cases, individuals may experience both OCD and hair pulling at the same time, which can further blur the distinction.

Misdiagnosis can also occur, particularly when one set of symptoms is more noticeable than the other.

If you’ve felt unsure or confused about your symptoms, that experience is valid and more common than you might think. 

How to Tell the Difference

A helpful question to ask yourself is:

“What is driving the behaviour?”

  • If it is driven by intrusive thoughts and fear, it may be OCD
  • If it is driven by urges, tension, or sensory experiences, it may be hair pulling

Another way to think about it:

  • OCD is often about preventing something bad or resolving uncertainty
  • Hair pulling is often about responding to an internal urge or sensation

Both can feel compelling. But the underlying process is different.

Treatment: Why the Distinction Matters

Because OCD and hair pulling are different, they are treated differently.

OCD Treatment

The gold-standard treatment for OCD is Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), a form of cognitive behavioural therapy. ERP helps individuals gradually face intrusive thoughts while resisting compulsions, allowing anxiety to decrease naturally over time.

If you’d like to understand this process in more detail, you can learn more about the OCD cycle.

Hair Pulling Treatment

Hair pulling is typically treated using approaches such as:

  • Habit Reversal Training (HRT)
  • Comprehensive Behavioural Model (ComB)
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Mindfulness

These approaches focus on:

  • Identifying triggers and urges
  • Interrupting automatic behaviour
  • Building alternative responses
  • Learning to notice urges without acting on them
  • Developing a more compassionate and flexible response to thoughts, urges, and behaviours
  • Reducing shame and self-criticism associated with pulling

Because these approaches target different processes than OCD treatment, using the wrong approach can sometimes lead to frustration. For example, ERP alone may not fully address urge-driven pulling, just as HRT alone may not address OCD-related intrusive thoughts.

What You Can Do Next

If you are experiencing hair pulling, OCD, or both, the most helpful step is not to label yourself perfectly, but to understand your patterns.

You might begin by noticing:

  • When the behaviour happens
  • What you are thinking or feeling beforehand
  • Whether it is driven by fear or by urge

These observations can help guide next steps in treatment.

You’re Not Alone in This

Many people live with overlapping or confusing symptoms, and it can take time to fully understand what is happening.

The important thing to know is that both OCD and hair pulling are treatable conditions. With the right support and the right approach, it is possible to reduce symptoms and regain a sense of control.

At StopOCD, we specialise in evidence-based treatment for OCD, including ERP. If your experience includes intrusive thoughts and compulsions, support is available.

If your experiences are more aligned with hair pulling, specialised approaches designed for BFRBs may be more appropriate.

Understanding the difference is not about getting a label exactly right. It is about finding the approach that helps you move forward.

If you’re still unsure, speaking with a professional or exploring trusted resources can help you better understand what you’re experiencing and what kind of support may be most helpful. You’re also welcome to reach out to our team if you’d like support in making sense of what you’re experiencing.

References

  1. National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI). (2024). Obsessive-compulsive disorder. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK553162/
  2. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE). (2022). Obsessive-compulsive disorder and body dysmorphic disorder: treatment guidelines. https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg31
  3. International OCD Foundation (IOCDF). (n.d.). About OCD. https://iocdf.org/about-ocd/
Meryl Da Costa

Meryl Da Costa-Rohland is a Counsellor and Community Leader with a special interest in OCD and related conditions, including body-focused repetitive behaviours (BFRBs), addiction recovery, and family support.

With over 20 years of experience spanning counselling, mental health advocacy, communications, and training, Meryl brings a unique blend of clinical insight and community leadership to her work. She has a particular interest in Mindfulness, Positive Psychology, CBT, ACT, and psychodynamic approaches, supporting individuals and families in developing compassionate and sustainable paths toward recovery.

In addition to her professional role, Meryl is a parent of children living with BFRBs (skin picking and hair pulling). This lived experience deeply informs her work with individuals and families, strengthening her commitment to empowerment, accessibility, and stigma-free education and support.

Meryl oversees community development, client experience, advocacy, and public engagement, and is passionate about creating spaces where people feel understood, supported, and equipped to heal.

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